A school can be excellent and still be wrong for your child. Begin with the family’s practical needs, then use school results, facilities and reputation to compare the options that remain.

European schools with an international label can differ fundamentally. They may be private or state-funded, day or boarding, selective or non-selective, religious or secular. They may teach a national curriculum, the International Baccalaureate (IB), a mixture of systems, or a bilingual programme that still leads to a national qualification.

Define the requirements before searching

Write down the following points and agree which are essential.

  1. Teaching language. Record the child’s current proficiency and the level needed to learn academic subjects. Check the language of lessons, social life, homework, reports and communication with parents.
  2. Location and transport. Measure the actual journey at school-run times. Include the walk to transport, traffic, transfers, parking and the arrangements for after-school activities.
  3. Sustainable cost. Set an annual limit that remains affordable for the whole expected period. Include fees that are not described as tuition.
  4. Final qualification. Identify which certificate the pupil is likely to receive and whether it supports the intended university countries.
  5. Support needs. Specify language support, learning support, accessibility, counselling, medical provision or individual assistance that the child may need.
  6. Mobility. If another move is possible, check notice periods, mid-year withdrawal costs and the ease of entering a new system later.

If the adults disagree, describe the disagreement directly. Concern about university entry and concern about daily wellbeing are both legitimate, but they require different evidence.

Decide what “good” means for this child

Broad labels such as “academic,” “international” or “nurturing” are not enough. Convert them into observable questions.

  • Academic pace: Does the child need more time, more challenge or firmer monitoring?
  • Classroom scale: What are typical class sizes, and how are groups arranged for languages and mathematics?
  • Pastoral responsibility: Which named adult notices absence, isolation or falling work? How often does that person meet the child?
  • Learning support: What support can the school provide, in which years, at what cost and with what exclusions?
  • Behaviour: How does the school respond to disruption, bullying and repeated rule-breaking?
  • Difficulty: What happens when a pupil fails a course, cannot meet the language requirement or needs to change level?
  • Belonging: Can the child participate fully in trips, sport, arts and social life?

Ask for examples of ordinary practice. A policy document is useful, but it does not show staffing capacity or how quickly support begins.

Read official information critically

Use the school website as primary evidence about its own rules, but remember that it is also marketing. Read pages in this order:

  1. Admissions: eligible pupils, priorities, assessments, deadlines and places.
  2. Fees: tuition, deposits, one-time charges, included services and withdrawal liability.
  3. Curriculum and qualifications: exact programme, subject choices and requirements for the final certificate.
  4. Inspection, authorisation and accreditation: the most recent report and the body’s actual role.
  5. Languages and support: entry requirements, support limits, additional charges and the grades in which provision ends.
  6. Calendar and school day: term dates, start and finish times, compulsory Saturdays, holidays and after-school care.

Accreditation terms are not interchangeable. The IB authorises particular programmes. Organisations such as the Council of International Schools (CIS) or the New England Association of Schools and Colleges (NEASC) accredit schools against their own standards. A national ministry or inspectorate may control legal status and qualification rights. Verify what each approval covers.

When a fee, deadline or class-size limit matters, save the document, URL and date accessed. Older PDFs often remain online after a new cycle begins.

Treat league tables and claims such as “number one” cautiously. Check the measured cohort, qualification, year and selection policy. Published averages describe previous pupils; they do not predict your child’s result.

Understand the qualification

Do not group programmes together simply because they sound international.

  • The IB Diploma is a two-year programme with specified subject and core requirements.
  • A levels, the French Baccalauréat, German Abitur, Austrian Matura, Spanish Bachillerato and Italian Maturità are different national qualifications.
  • An American high-school diploma does not by itself describe the courses, external tests or equivalence required by every university.
  • A bilingual stream or teaching model may still lead to an ordinary national certificate.

For example, Dutch tweetalig onderwijs (TTO) means bilingual education. It is not a separate school-leaving qualification: pupils take the relevant Dutch national examination, sometimes alongside additional certificates.

Ask the school to name the exact certificate printed at graduation. Then check university-entry rules with the relevant university or official admissions service. Local recognition may require particular subjects, levels, language courses or examinations.

If a future move is likely, ask how the next school would place the pupil. Transferring during the final two qualification years can be difficult even when both schools use the same broad curriculum label.

Calculate the full cost

Request a written schedule covering:

  • application and assessment charges;
  • admission, enrolment, capital or development fees;
  • tuition and the payment calendar;
  • refundable deposits and the conditions for repayment;
  • books, devices, examinations, meals and transport;
  • trips, sport, boarding, uniforms and after-school care;
  • language and learning-support fees, including one-to-one assistance;
  • interest, late-payment and currency rules;
  • discounts, financial aid and employer billing;
  • notice deadlines and charges after withdrawal.

Separate money that is refundable from money that is not. Also separate a confirmation payment that contains tuition from a fee charged on top of tuition. Otherwise the first term can easily be counted twice.

If an employer pays, confirm who remains legally responsible when employment ends or an invoice is disputed. If you need aid, ask about eligibility, typical award size, deadlines and whether new international pupils can apply. Do not build a multi-year plan around an unconfirmed bonus, scholarship or discount.

Build a shortlist of three realistic schools

A useful shortlist normally contains:

  • the school that most clearly meets the brief;
  • a credible alternative offering a similar curriculum or qualification;
  • a local national or publicly funded option, if language, eligibility and future plans make it realistic.

Three serious candidates reveal trade-offs more clearly than twelve speculative names. A local school is not automatically suitable, and an international school is not automatically portable. Include each only when it meets the family’s actual constraints.

Compare the same dimensions for every school: admissions, language, qualification, support, commute, annual cost, withdrawal terms and the child’s response.

Use the visit to test the evidence

Ask to see normal classrooms and shared spaces during an ordinary school day. Observe pupils without treating a brief visit as a definitive judgment.

Useful questions include:

  • Where does a new or shy pupil spend lunch?
  • Who helps when a child is isolated or homesick?
  • What support begins in the first weeks for a pupil learning the teaching language?
  • What happens when work falls below the required level?
  • Which activities are compulsory, and which cost extra?
  • How are phones, bullying and safeguarding handled?
  • Can you speak to the person responsible for the child’s year or support plan?
  • What changed after the most recent inspection or parent survey?

Use Ten questions that make a school tour useful for a fuller visit checklist.

Make and record the decision

Scorecards can organise facts, but do not let a total conceal a serious weakness. A school that fails a non-negotiable requirement should not win because it has better facilities.

Write a short decision note covering:

  • why this school fits the child now;
  • what risk remains;
  • what the family has confirmed in writing;
  • what would cause the decision to be reconsidered.

Two schools may both be defensible choices. Select the one whose trade-offs the family can manage consistently, including on an ordinary weekday and if the relocation plan changes.

Friendly orientation, not formal admissions advice. Always confirm dates with the school.

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